10 Old-School Dating Behaviors It's Time to Reinstate
3. Make plans at least three days in advance -- and don't cancel
In the 1940s, it was common for men and women to date someone different every weekend (see above) which required men to ask women out weeks in advance. This allowed both parties to prepare. This practice is a great way to use anticipation to your advantage. Fortunately, we live in a society where the ladies no longer have to sit and wait to be asked out -- so don't be afraid to ask him what he's doing next Saturday.
And don't cancel! Once upon a time, women were groomed to be polite and accept or decline at the time of the invitation. And it was considered very rude to break a date at the last minute. Implementing these common courtesies might be just the shift we need.
5. Go on actual dates
In the 1950s, it was popular for men to pick women up and go do something beyond meeting for 10 minutes in a coffee shop or downing a couple of cocktails in a noisy barroom. These days, it's more common (and safer) to meet a new date at a specified location; but how great would it be to enjoy a well-thought-out, fun, and interesting night where you both get to know one another and have a good time? And don't just expect all of the men to do the work, ladies: guys like to be courted, too.
6. Throw a group date
Group dinners were all the rage in the '70s, with hosts pulling out fondue pots and sharing everything from cheese to chocolate. These outings take the edge off while letting people mix and mingle with new friends... albeit with a distinct aroma of Gruyère.
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